Coaching Women Engineers: Professionally, and for Life

Confidence Issues Hold Back Women Engineers

"lack of confidence"

"cannot articulate well enough"

In my previous company, I was very focused on mentoring women engineers because I wanted to help them get into the next step. Working with women engineers in general, I found out a common phenomenon: lack of confidence. They are more concentrated on what they want, but the issue is not knowing how to bring this up to people they are working with, including their manager. In some cases, some women cannot articulate well enough what they might be looking for.

Coaching Women Engineers in Their Career

"help them clarify, or understand what exactly they were looking for"

"Being affirmative, and asking for further explanation when needed is something that most women engineers need to assure"

When I was coaching and working with a female engineer, the first thing that I did was help them clarify, or understand what exactly they were looking for. In essence, help them be able to phrase that clearly in front of their managers. Being affirmative, and asking for further explanation when needed is something that most women engineers need to assure.

A bigger part of me was actually guiding them to recognize their goals and work towards them. Working with my tech leads, and other individuals in my team, I made sure that they are aware of themselves and their surroundings; like what resources they had and how they could utilize them to get the best results.

Mentors who actually offer help to others might sometimes be very inspiring. They might talk about things that are easier said than done.

Normally, I like to dig deeper into conversations with different people. Sometimes a lot of people say something that they might not be looking for. However, I have been thinking about having a group discussion, more like a cohort, with different people.

Lessons learned

• Building confidence can be a game-changer. It’s crucial to get out of one’s comfort zone and be able to present their idea. Be aware of your skills and you might as well come up with an idea of a lifetime.
• If you’re a mentor, try to be as inspiring as possible to others. Remember that others will follow in your footsteps, and you need to prove the best of your abilities as an example.